Sunday, March 10, 2013

Don't Choose Stress by James Malinchak

By Rubin Price


There were instances in my life, I was under substantial stress! Some of you might be saying, "I don't believe you! Secret Millionaire James Malinchak under stress?" Well, it's true. I have been faced with stressful events in my life. Nonetheless, I realized something in the beginning: I learned not to let the stress get to me. I learned to let the stress roll off me like water off a duck's back. That is what I want from you. I want you to choose not to stress.

Now, I know what you are thinking, "Hold on a second, James. What in the world do you think you're saying?" You heard me correctly. I want you to choose not to stress, and this is what I mean when I promote this instruction. I've got a pal and a speaker whom I love and respect. This friend is one of my favorite public speakers. His name is Ed Foreman, and he says this, "All the water in the world cannot sink a ship unless it gets in on the inside of the ship."

Think about it; what I'm saying to you is, "All the stress, all the frustration, all the anxiety in this world cannot sink you or I unless we let it get in on the inside of us." Furthermore, here is what else Ed taught me, "Worry is nothing more than the misuse of your mind. Choosing the focus on what you do not want to have happened rather than choosing the focus on what you do want to have happened."

Due to these quotes, here's what I'm discussing with you. When you are thinking about using 'Millionaire Secrets' in your life to attract wealth; when you are thinking about giving to yourself and enriching the lives of others, I really want you to deny stress power. By giving stress power, you lose your effectiveness. You lose your steam. Instead, barrel ahead with your chin high because no one and not one thing can get you down, if you don't choose to let it in you!

Thus, forging ahead and remaining confident is something we need to do for ourselves. Confidence must come from within. We can not rely on the other people's confidence in lieu of self belief. You know, one of my platinum members, Andrea Adams-Miller, "The Leading International Authority on Healthy Relationships," once said, "Be your own cheerleader because no one else wants it for you more than you do!" The choice we make to deny stress to take over our lives, the choice we make to take on the challenges as a means to excel results in successes overcoming the challenges almost every time.

We need to pull up, buck up, and move forward to achieve success in the fastest way possible. Confidence is an only armor to overcome stress, so put on your confidence every day and fight to win what you desire. Focus instead on the blessings you do have in your own life. By the way, truly, you never lose, you only receive the opportunity to go to it again with a new strategy, a new mindset, a new attitude, and a new skillset. Celebrate the wins; celebrate the ties, because either way you are a winner!

James Malinchak, Featured on ABC's Hit Television Show Secret Millionaire, is regarded by most professionals as the World,s Number 1 Big Money Speaker Trainer and Coach. For FREE Video Trainings regarding how to get paid to speak and how to be a motivational speaker, check out www.BigMoneySpeaker.com.




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